Ok. Im 11 years old (( But very Different then other kids my age)) I was in a car accedent and My stepmother died Whom I loved dearly. my mom (( biological)) and dad where never married and they had me. But anyway First thing my dad is Being such a jerk. He always Tramples my fun and when Im just in my room hanging out he comes in and ruins the mood. Plus He Has a New girlfriend That is A horrible person to me (( I think that he was cheating on my stepmom before she died Because I used to hear their conversations )) She comes in the house and talks to me like I know her when I don’t. He has a gambling addiction and I suspect that he is an acholic too. but thats not all 
Im torn because Im learning things I didn’t know about him And Its so hard now that I have to try to take on the role of my stepmom and try to stop him from gambling. My mother is the one making the most sense but I can’t decide who to belive. Please answer!
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I am so sorry you are having to go through all that. Have you tried talking to your Mom about this? Is there a reason you don’t live with her? Is she a good mother? It’s not fair for you to have to deal with your Dad and his gf. Talk to your mom or maybe another family member that you can trust.
Ok the gambling, the acholic and the yell are all problems. Him seeing weman isnt and it could make him start to clean himself up a bit if he finds someone he likes. Try to have a heart to heart with him and don’t let him talk about you at all! This is about him not you and he will try changing things around and try making this about you (parents alway blame their kids) Just tell him how you feel and be done with it.
dont worry me and my sisters (2) all have differnt dads and the same mom and my one sis’s dad had a farm and 4wheelers and stuff thats really cool and now he is addicted to crack and my other sis’s dad aboused my mom and the only nice guy she has been with is my dad so i get where your coming from i understand
Well it depends. Your just a kid you shouldnt have to be dealing with things like this but things happen that we’d never expect. Sounds to me like maybe you should be living with your mom if your dad is acting like that.
go wit ur heart where watever feels rite do it nd u should tell ur dad hw u feel nd dat u wori bout him u never no were a few words can take u
go live with your mom.
I think it is horrific that a child your age has to be subjected to such a lifestyle. It sounds like you have no real adult role model in your life. You should be allowed to be a child and not the care giver your parent(s). I recommend you find a sane environment the you can go to, where you feel safe, and cared for…like a friends house or a group for childern like yourself. You need to find positive support and this really sadens me that a child has to make a plea for a normal life. I wish you all the best…and I pray you grow up to be a healthy, normal, well adjusted adult. Do not follow your parents examples.